Personal
Names
1 Genesis
All the creatures in this world have a language or a
medium for communicating their thoughts and feelings
to each other. The cries and sounds of birds and
animals are understood by their fellow-beings. A
horse's neigh, cow's low, cat's mew, lion's roar or a
jackal's howl are intelligible to other members of
their species. Man is the crown of creation. God has
made man after his own image. In the earliest period
of his development man used a symbolic language and
with the help of signs and gestures communicated his
thoughts. and feelings to other beings of his own
species. Accordingly with the gradual development of
medium of expression man began to identify things
around him and expressed his thoughts and feelings by
means of his tongue
'Max Muller, a renowned orientalist said,
"Language is noting but a contrivance devised by
human skill for the most expeditious communication of
thoughts and who would wish to see it treated, not as
a production of nature but simply a work of human
art."
2 Origin
The gradual identification of objects, animate or
inanimate, by man gave birth to what we call the NAMES
of these objects. Thus the continuous and repeated use
of a word or wordgroup for individualising a certain
object became its name in the society. A name may,
therefore, roughly be defined a word or a small group
of words indicating a particular entity in the
entirety without necessarily or essentially indicating
any special quality of entity. Name of an object makes
us familiar with that object. Names are, therefore,
the words used to identify and distinguish
individuals. Accordingly, the name is a medium of
direct contact between an individual and the society
as it distinguishes a person or an object from others
of the same class. Name is a powerful instrument of
convenience invented by man. It does not work only in
a civilised society but even the tamed animals
immediately respond to it mechanically. Ask the
efficacy and usefulness of a name to a stranger who
was struggling to get his leg out of the powerful jaws
of a furious dog, who on hearing 'Moti' from his
master, immediately left the stranger and began to
lick the feet of the master. Shabdha Kalpadramu
defines a name thus,
2.1 Categories
Names do not always present a pleasent experience. An
instant irritation is caused when we call a person by
a name which he does not like for one or the other
reasons. It works like a needle prick and the person,
not only a man but even an animal, is in a state of
madness and behaves as if under a lunatic fit. On the
other hand if we call an ordinary man by a pleasing
name elevating his social or official status, we get
immediate response of all help and friendship.
Consciously or unconsciously, therefore, we have
created different categories of names, pleasant and
unpleasant; respectful and disrespectful, holy and
unholy, awkward and non-awkward, normal and abnormal.
This large number of names has compelled man to use
his wisdom and judgement to select suitable one for
his own self and other beings. This process of
selecting a name was primarily a linguistic exercise
but, as in other spheres of human activity, with the
gradual predominance of religion the name giving,
christening, namakaran, or with what term we may call
it, ceremony assumed great religious importance (See
Sec. A 92 and A 93).
3 Dissimilarity
Personal names reflect the socio-religious as well as
linguistic traditions of a particular region. Names in
Europe, Africa and other non-Indian areas are
remarkably different from the names commonly found in
the Indian sub-continent. These are not identical even
in different regions of a particular country. A
striking difference is noticed between a North Indian
and a South Indian, a Muslim and a Hindu, and a
Christian and a Parsee name in India. Names do not
differ in appearance and meaning only but in their
syntax and usage also.
4 Given Names
From the beginning of civilization a child has been
receiving a name after it is born and welcomed in the
society. Names have a special significance, perhaps
describing the child's appearance or expressing high
hopes of the parents for the future of their child. In
the beginning every individual had only one name which
is sometimes called as 'Personal name', 'Given name'
or 'Christian name.' This one name served the purpose
of the individualisation and identification very well
as the number of people in a particular region or
cultural group was very limited and lived in a
splendid isolation."
"Given names are usually drawn
from some older language. For example, from Hebrew
comes Benjamin; from Greek, Andrew; from Latin, Amy;
from German, Albert, from the Celtic, Donald; from the
Anglo-Saxon, Alfred. Originally these names had a
meaning. A girl born during a famine was sometimes
called Una (Celtic for famine). A golden haired blonde
might be called Flavia (Latin for yellow) or Blanche.
(French for white). Mercy and patience (used by
puritans), David (beloved), Susan (lily), Deborah
(bee), Margret (pearl) are other examples."
4.1 Naga Names
Sources of names in India have been diverse and
varied. But Sanskrit language and literature have
served as an unending treasury of names for almost all
Indians including ancient Kashmiris. Name giving among
Hindus is a very ancient practice but its critical
appreciation is obscured by a chain of complexities
like caste, creed, sex, race and language. During
earlier settlement of Aryans in India, and later in
the valley of Kashmir, the local (non-Aryan) names
were fanatically sanskritized by Hindu name makers to
conform to their imaginary etymology. A study of names
of ancient Kashmir reveals that they were derived
mainly from the Sanskrit language, the language of
learned and elite. Some of the selected few from a
huge stock of such names are Vasugupta, Kallata,
Somananda, Utpala, Rama Kantha, Laksmanagupta, Bhaskar,
Abhinavagupta, Bhatta Narayana, Ksemraja, Srikantha,
Yogaraja, Narayan Kantha, Bhatta Vamadeva, Subhatta
and Jayaratha etc. (see appendix). It will not be out
of place to mention here some of the non-Aryan names
of some Nagas preserved in Nilamata Purana. They are:
Ajakarna, Asvakarna, Vidyunmali,
Darimukha, Orana, Rocana, Hasi, Naratana, Gayana,
Kambhata, Subhata, Bahuputra, Nisacara, Magura, Kokila,
Trata, Malaya, Yavanapriya, Kotapala, Mahipala, Gopala,
Patalasuci, Rajadhiraja, Vinata, Svarga, Vimalaka,
Alani, Chakrahasta, Suli, Pasi, Saga, Naga Citrakara,
Vatsa, Bakapati, Sitarta, Yavamali, Ravana,
Raksasakrti, Yajva, Datta, Hota, Bhokta and Bhogapati.
While going through the above
mentioned Naga names we should not forget the fact
that these names are spoken by a Brahmin well-versed
in Sanskrit language and have come to us through a
famous Sanskrit work. We should not, therefore, be
astonished to find a very little, nay a very
negligible dissimilarity between these Naga names and
other Aryan names. As a matter of fact they have been
allowed to survive to this day only in a sanskritized
form. Thus leaving very little scope to know the real
morphology and meaning of aborigine names of Kashmir.
Had a little tolerance been shown to present these
names in their true aborigine from it would have
thrown open new vistas of research on very dark zones
of Indology. We should not blame the author of
Nilamata Purana only in this context. Almost all the
Sanskrit works including the Mahabharata have
presented all the aborigine characters, whether it be
Naga, Pisaca, Madra, Nisada, Raksasa, Daitya or latest
Yavanas in a sanskritized form. As a matter of fact,
names undergo interesting changes when they are
translated from one language to another. "Henry
(Teutonic, head of the house) became Harry, Hal, Henri
(French) Heinrich (German), Enrico (Italian) Hendrick
(Danish), Jacob (Hebrew), a supplanter becomes James,
Jacques (French), Giacom (Italian), Diego and Jaime
(Spanish), John (Hebrew, gift of God) becomes Johannes
(Latin), Hans (German), Jean.(French) Giovanni
(Italian)."
4.2 Local Influence
Similarly the Sanskrit names like Govinda, Vishnu,
Shiva, Suriya, Darshana, Ishwara, Kashi, Nila Kantha,
Tilaka, Chidambhara, Sarvananda, Parmananda, Sudhania,
Hari, Kailasha, Vasudeva, Deva, Gangadhara, Ganesha,
Bhavani Das and Bhagvandas were changed beyond
recognition when. used in spoken Kashmiri. Their
present form is Goondu, Veshnu, Shevu, Siriyu, Dashu,
Ishu, Kaashee, Kaantha, Teluk, Chedu, Sarvu Paru,
Sodhu, Haru, Kalas, Vasu, Divu, Bhog, Bhonu etc..
Same, change has taken place in female Sanskrit names.
Thus, Jaimala has become Zaimal, Ganga has taken the
form of Ganguj, Lakshmi became Lakhim, Bhavani was
changed into Bhoni, Yashmala became Veshir and Pushpa
became Poosh in the day-to-day spoken language. Muslim
names, which are mainly derived from Arabic, Persian
and other Islamic literature have also not been able.
to keep their original form unaltered. Accordingly
Sultan became Sulu, Mohammed became Momu, Ahmad took
the form of Amu, Rasool became Rosul, Khadeeja became
Khatij, Al Khaliq became Khalu, Ibrahim became Ibu and
Al Majeed became Maju.
4.3 Fancy of Authors
Moreover the whims and fancies of different authors
have played a great role in giving a definite
character and shape to a particular name. After all
what are the reasons behind the fact that almost all
the sons of Dhritrashtra are having very repulsive and
abnoxious names? Is it that there was no Sanskrit
scholar of good taste present at the Royal Court of
Kaurvas? Ancient names used to be very beautiful and
full of meaning. The name Dhritrashtra itself. is a
very wonderful name meaning a person capable of
shouldering the responsibility of a nation. Moreover
the Pandavas, the cousins of Dhritrashtras sons,
possess very beautiful and pleasing names. So the
phenomenon of Kaurava names is not only puzzling but
intriguing too. Vyasa seems to have expressed his
anger and displeasure with Kauravas by deliberately
mutilating and disfiguring their names." This
bigotory and jealousy is not peculiar to the author of
the great epic Mahabharata only, even in other kinds
of literature and folk tales we find villains being
called with such names which even an ordinary person
would not give to his children. Munshi Prem Chand a
celebrated Hindi writer, seems to have been very
critical of the role of Pandits and Purohits in Hindu
society. Perusal of his important works would unveil a
character Mote Ram Shastary who happens to be highly
ignorant of Shastaras with a large belly, clumsy
appearance and greedy look in his eyes. Therefore, any
person in possession of above characteristics is even
now called Mote Ram. Similarly Sarat Chandra's Devdas
has become an immortal figure and any lovesick man
indifferent to his person is called by the name of
Deva Dasa. More recently a thug and a cheat who
befooled both police and public many times has made
people to call any person (possessing above mentioned
traits) as Natwarlal. We in Kashmir even now call a
person as Mahadev Bisht if he displays any trait of
the courageous and benevolent thief. Such names have,
however, never served as a source of christening but
are on the other hand very powerful agencies of nick
names (Details in Chapter D).
5 Sources
As stated above the sources of Hindu names have been
many and varied. Dronacharya the famous Pandava Guru
was named Drona because he was found as an abandoned
child in a Drona (i.e. bucket). Bhisma acquired his
name after he took a severe vow of life long celibacy.
A sage named his disfigured son as Ashtavakra because
all his eight limbs were in a disfigured shape.
Well-known heroine of Ramayana and beloved wife of Sri
Rama was called Sita because she was found under the
earth. Her other name was j'anaki because she was the
daughter of the Great janka. A sage, being an ardent
lover of dogs and their tails, named his three sons as
Shunashep, Shunapucha and Shunolangul. These names
were symbolic of a dog's. tail. May be the nature of
the sons resembled that of a dog or its curved tail.
5.1 Totemism
Ancient Hindus held firm belief in totemism.
Accordingly Aryan families and clans were named after
some animal, plant or an inanimate object. "From
Aja, 'goat' comes the name of Aja, a tribe mentioned
in the Rigveda; Asva, 'horse' is the root of such
names as Asvapati and Asvathama (Asvani Kumar) and
also of Svetasvatara, 'White seed', the title of an
Upanishada, 'Bharadvaja', 'Skylark' is the totemic
name of a celebrated Rishi family; from 'Chhagla'
'goat', is derived Chhagaleya, the name of Vedic
teacher and also of an Upanishad now extinct in its
sanskrit form; from 'Gotma', 'bull' come the names of
several wellknown sages; and from 'Hays', 'horse' are
derived the names Haihaya, a tribe, and Hayagriva, a
godling;. 'Ibha', 'elephant' is the totem of Ibhya, a
village people mentioned in the Chhandogyaupanishada;
from 'Kausika', 'owl' comes Kausitaki, the name of an
Upanishad and from 'Kachhapa', 'tortoise' comes the
name of Kasyapa, a Maharishi; 'Kshudraka', a variety
of gadfly gives its name to a Gana, or clan, of
ancient India; Wikura', 'dog' were a tribe associated
with the Vrishnis along the Yamuna; Malava, a white
flowering plant, is said to give the name to the
Malava tribe; from Manduka, 'frog', comes the title of
the Mandukyaupanishada; from 'Matanga', 'elephant' the
name of a pre-Mauryan dynasty of Maghda; 'Matsya',
'fish' is the name of an important tribe in Hindu
Mythology; and Mayura, 'peacock' the origin of the
name of Mauryan-dynasty; from 'Mudgala', a kind of a
fish,. is derived the name of a rishi; 'Maushika',
'rat', may be t the origin of an ancient Indian tribe
known to the Greeks as the Musicani; 'Naga', 'snake'
is the name of an ancient people, and is still used as
a 'surname' by Hindus of Eastern India, 'Nakula', 'Ichneumari',
was the name of Pandava Prince; from Pipal, a kind of
fig tree comes the name of Pippalada, the founder of a
vedic school; 'Riksha', 'bear' is the name of a Rishi
family to which Samvarana belonged; from 'Sakla', a
species of snake comes the name of Sakalya, a teacher
who founded a Rig-vedic Sakha; from ' Sardula ', a
'tiger' comps Sardunya, the rishi after whom a now
lost Sama-Veda sakha was named; 'Sigru', a plant,
possibly the horse raddish, gave the name to a people
mentioned in the Rigveda, 'Simha', 'lion' gives its
name to Sinha, and Singh; the name Hathisingh
(elephant-lion) is used by certain classes of Punjabi
Hindus, from 'Sukti', 'oyster', comes the name
Suktimati, capital of Chedi, 'Sunaka', a 'dog' gives
the name to Sunaka, a famous vedic grammarian; a sage
mentioned in the Chhandogyaupanishada who imparted
secret knowledge to a student, was called Sunaka
Kapeya, a dog-monkey, 'Titira', 'partridge' gives its
name to the Talttiriya Upanishada; and 'Vatsa', 'calf'
to the Vatsa tribe of the Ganga-jamuna confluence,
with capital at Kausambi."
5.2 Personal Beliefs
Sometimes wrong ideas and blind faith of a certain
parent gives birth to a very awkward and unusual name.
Such names become life-long burden for their owners
and they feel crushed under a terrific psychological
burden. Names are after all a reflection of one's
personality. A recent survey conducted by University
of Columbia has shown that a person's satisfaction
with his name coincides with his approval of the kind
of person he judges himself to be. Seen Thornton, a
Dublin Psychologist, says that a person who does not
like his first name tends to find faults in himself.
An unusual name is a social handicap and the owners of
such names face more troubles in adjusting to the
pressures of every day life than their more
conveniently named colleagues. Our strong emotional
reaction when our name is honoured, mis-spelled or
slighted, shows how closely--often right out of
proportion-we identify name with self. Forget a
person's name when he expects you to recall it, and
you arouse resentment. All of us, at one time or
another, have committed this embarrassing social
blunder; and psychologists believe that we are more
likely to forget the names of people we unconsciously
dislike, so perhaps resentment is justified."
6 Western Approach
Shakespeare, Kalidasa of English literature, does not
attach much significance to a name. He considers a
name only as a removable appendage. Name is not the
self. The owner of a certain name, however, awkward or
beautiful it may be, cannot change or modify his
essential characteristics. Name is a superfluous stamp
marked on the self of a man and is not at all an
identity of the character of its owner. Change of name
does not guarantee any qualitative change in a man.
After all, what is in a name ? The following
conversation between Juliet and Romeo express the
Shakespearian views more clearly : " Juliet-O,
Romeo, Romeo! wherefore art thou Romeo? Deny thy
father and refuse thy name, or if thou will not, be
but sworn my love, And I will no longer be a capulet.
Romeo(Aside) shall I hear more or shall I speak at
this?. . . Juliet 'This but thy name that is my enemy;
thou art thyself, though not a Montague. What's
Montague? It is not hand, nor foot, nor arm, nor face,
nor any other part belonging to man. O, be some
other name; what's in a name ? that which we call a
rose. By any other name would smell as sweet, so Romeo
would, were he not Romeo call'd, Retain that dear
perfection which he owes. Without that title Romeo,
doff thy name. And thy name which is not part of thee.
Take all myself. Romeo-I take at thy word: call me but
love, and I'll be new baptized, Henceforth I will
never be Romeo"-
6.1 Indian Approach
But contrary to above, the Indian literators have
attached a great significance to a name. Phrases and
idioms like 'to earn a name', 'to bring a name', 'to
shine one's name', etc., are found in abundance in all
Indian languages. Pages of Indian history bear
testimony to the fact that many a bloody battle was
fought only either to make a name or to save a name.
To save the honour and dignity of his clan name (Raghukul)
Lord Rama gladly accepted the iq. years painful exile.
To make one's name to perpetuate after one's death
thousands of Hindus have undergone severe penances and
sacrifices to have a son to keep alive their name.
This phenomenon (Putraichha) perhaps, has contributed
more to the subjugation of women in Hindu society,
than any other. Hindus generally believe that only a 'Putra',
'son' can perpetuate the name of the family; and only
he delivers the father from hell as it means in
Sanskrit i.e., Put (Hell) plus tra (Deliverer). Even
at the funeral the Pinda ceremony is performed by the
son in a family. A daughter is considered as 'Paraya-dhana'.
One of the major causes for the inferior status
granted to women in our society is the exaggerated
emphasis on the role of the 'Putra', 'son' to the
exclusion of the daughter in functions and ceremonies.
It is also because of this custom that daughters are
treated as second class members of the family and are
subjected psychologically to a shabby treatment by
being given the feeling of not being essential and
easily dispensable.'
A name, once given to a person, in due
course of time becomes an essential and irremovable
facet of his person. "American comedian Will
Rogers knew well how important names are to their
owners. Challenged by a friend at a White House
reception to make the Sedate President Calvin Coolidge
.mile. Rogers shook hands with the President, leaned
over and murmured casually, 'Pardon me I didn't catch
the name '. He was rewarded by a surprise guffaw from
Coolidge."
6.2 Numerology
Numerologists believe that names can bring good
fortune as well as bad to their owners. Eskimos, when
old, adopt new names to 'take a new lease on life.' In
some Eastern societies seriously ill patients are
given new names by their relatives as a ruse to cheat
the Angel of death.
We can quote a number of instances
where agitations have been launched to re-name the
cities, states, villages, hospitals and other
institutions. In most of such cases people have either
demanded to revive the old names or to perpetuate the
memory of a saint, leader, social worker etc., attach
his name to a public institution. This clearly
demonstrates the emotional attachment of an individual
or society to a certain name.
6.3 Trade
The importance and influence of names have been felt
more in the world of trade and industry than in any
other sector of human activity. Brand names are being
imitated every now and then and hundreds of cases of
litigations are finding their way to the courts of law
in every part of world. After British withdrawal from
India a number of Brand names were sold at a very high
cost to the Indian successors of British companies.
These names had won the public esteem and approval
during their long period of existence in this country.
7 Wrong Pronunciation
Very amusing. situations arise when deliberately or
otherwise a name is mis-spelt or wrongly pronounced.
This author had to face a few embarrassing moments in
one of the towns of Punjab when he addressed a certain
gentleman (having his surname written as 'Makkar' on
the name plate) as 'Mr Makkar' which in the vernacular
means a 'cunning man'. In reality the surname of this
particular gentleman is pronounced as 'Makkad' .
The embarrassment caused to a lady addressed as Mrs
Fool instead of Mrs Phoola was really a painful
experience both for the addressee and the addresser,
the former being ignorant of Kashmiri practices and
the latter having failed to bear the burden of
sarcastic smile of the bearer of the letter. An
irritated young man, recently wrote a strong worded
letter to the editor of a news paper complaining that
his name has been intentionally mis-spelt. His name
appeared as Mr. Miecziplaws Dzesdosz while his actual
name was Mieczrlaws Dziadosz. He bitterly complained
that his friends were asking him if he had changed his
name. Such amusing but awkward situations are. created
more often when a local name is transliterated in a
foreign language or vice versa. In my article on
'Kashmiri names', I had mentioncd the name of much
reverred hermitess 'Lallashawari', which, to my
amazement was later translated into Hindi as
(i.e. Harmet the red lion). I have no hesitation in
confessing that, in spite of being a student of world
history, the Chinese and the West Asian names have
often confused me. Similarly, South Indian names (full
form) are a strange phenomenon for any North Indian.
Europeans have more than once expressed their
displeasure at the appearance and pronunciation of
Indian names. An irritated middle-aged English lady
once came with an unusual complaint to Mr Nehru for in
one of the communications she was addressed as Mr.
instead of Mrs. To quote Mr. Mathai 'while we were in
London in 1948, a member of the small staff from the
Indian High Commission attached to the Prime Minister
reported to me that a middle aged English woman had
arrived at the hotel (Claridges) requesting a meeting
with some one connected with Prime Minister Nehru. She
was shown in. She introduced herself as Margaret
Cholomondeley. She had come with a letter written to
her by a man called Ramamrittan (Rao Saheb), an
Assistant Secretary in. the Ministry of External
Affairs. The letter was in reply to a communication
she had addressed to the Prime Minister on Kashmir.
She had a serious complaint about that letter because
she was addressed a: "Mr Margaret Cholmondeley."
She had a further complaint that the name "Ramaritham"
was too much of a mouthful. I was somewhat annoyed and
numbled to myself "as if her's is not." I
told her that Ramanritlhan was an oldman who had never
travelled abroad, so he could not distinguish female
names from male ones. I asked her if she could say
whether " Lakshmi. Kanthamma Reddy" was a
male or a female name. She said 'No'. I told her that
almost all Indian names had meanings and they sounded
musical to Indians.. I asked her if I call you
"Miss Chumley won't you be agreeably
surprised." She said, "you are the first.
Indian who, has pronounced my name correctly." I
told her that, "we in India are used to phonetic
languages. We pronounce according to the spelling..
English is an illogical language though a sublime one
and some of your names are baffling to foreigners. I
happen to know personally a Lord Cholomondeley in
London who has a valet called Bottemley who created
complications by changing the pronunciation to Bumley.
But for this knowledge, I would not have been able to
pronounce your name correctly." Then I told her
how an Indian name helped in the escape of three
Indians from Germany after Hitler had seized power. Mr
A. C. N. Nambiar was informed by his German friends
that Hitler's S.S. were after him and two other
Indians and they should hasten to escape to
Switzerland. Nambiar took the advice, collected the
two Indians and left Berlin. As they came within a few
yards of the Swiss border, an S. S. Captain arrived
from nowhere and stopped them. He lined them up asking
questions in English. First came a Bengali, who was
voluble and argumentative individual.
S. S. Captain: Name?
Bengali: Basu
S. S. Captain: Christian name ?
Basu: There is no such thing in india
S. S. Captain: (shouting) Christian name?
Basu: Tarapada
S. S. Captain: Catholic or Protestant?
Basu: There is no such thing in India
S. S. Captain: (Furious) Catholic or
Protestant?
Basu: Protestant
Next came A. C. N. Nambiar who knew German well.
S. S. Captain: Name?
Nambiar: Nambiar
S. S. Captain: Christian Name?
Nambiar: Araththil Candeth Narayan
S. S. Captain: Catholic or Protestant?
Nambiar: Catholic
Bengali (intervening): He is no Catholic
S. S. Captain (Angry): Do you know punishment
for lying?
Nambiar: I shall explain. If you look at the
map of Europe you will see all the northern
countries are predominantly protestant and the
southern countries are predominantly catholic. This
is the result of Reformation. Mr Basu comes from
northern India, that is how he is protestant. I come
from the south of India, that is why I am a catholic
S. S. Captain: (impressed) You must be a
Brahmin.
Nambiar: Yes, (Actually he is a non-Brahmin).
Last came the Telugu Brahmin who was smart.
S. S. Captain: Name?
Telugu Brahmin: Prathivadibhayankaram
Thiruvenkatesh Warayya Pantulu Garu.
The S. S. Captain was flabbergasted.
He looked around and made sure that no S. S. man was
spying on him. Then he said, "Go, I will never be
able to write this". All the three walked over to
the safety of Switzerland.
I also told her how an Indian name
created temporary estrangement between a husband and a
wife. The story relates to Alladi Krishna Swami Aiyar,
the renowned lawyer of Madras. On the day he was
knighted by the British in India, the lawyer told his
wife in Tamil, "Nee Lady Alladi"! This lent
itself to two meanings. The lawyer meant "You are
Lady Alladi." The wife understood the other
meaning "You are no lady." The immediate
result can be imagined.
I also told her that the British had
to unlearn many things and learn new things. I
reminded her that it was only recently that an
Englishman returned from a visit to Egypt and made the
revelation that the Mediterranian Sea was south of the
African Continent because he saw that the Nile was
flowing into the Mediterranian at the Alexandria. He
could not conceive of any river flowing other than the
South because he was used to the Thames flowing
South"!
7.1 Foreign Names
Very often a particular foreign name having a
ridiculous meaning in a local language gives rise to
instant laughter and guffow much to the embarrassment
of the owner of the name. Recalling an incident
Khushwant Singh states that he had "an
embarrassing encounter with a distinguished Swede, A
Mr. Lund (very common name in Scandinavia) who was due
to visit India. After a few drinks I got courage to
tell him that he should not be upset if Northern
Indians smiled or sniggered at being introduced to him
and explained what his name meant in Hindustani. He
was most amused and told me that he had not long
before escorted an Indian lady called Miss Dass and
had to introduce her to various audiences. 'Why should
that have embarrassed you?' I asked him. "Because
in Swedish the word 'dass' means 'shit' replied Mr.
Lund."
8 Bawdy Names
The selection of a name is a critical matter. Final
choice should rest with the person who has to own it.
Parents may give a temporary name which its incumbent
should be entitled to throw away as it sheds milk
teeth and choose another which he fancies. Only he or
she who has to live with a particular name should have
the right to choose it. There is a bawdy story about a
man who lost all his children soon after they were
born. On the advice of a learned Pandit he decided to
give his future children ugly and obscene names,
believing the God doesn't mouth obscenities and will
not send for them. Accordingly, he named his next son
as 'penis' and his daughter as 'vagina'. He also named
his goat kid as 'buttocks'. The advice worked and the
three lived in good health. Obscene climax of the
story reached at the nuptials of the girl and her
mother's pleading with her son-in-law to be
considerate towards her 'vagina' daughter. The stunned
son-in-law ran out of the house and his fatherin-law
pursued him pleading that he was as dear to him as his
own 'penis' (son) and if he came back he would
slaughter (Hindi word Maro) the 'buttock' (Goat kid)
to feast him."
Bawdy and awkward names were usually
given to ensure the safety of child from ghosts and
ghouls. But sometimes they reflect desparate mood of
parents. A couple to whom seventh daughter was born
named her as ' Kshemeshwari ' (i.e. they begged for
mercy of God to stop the chain of daughters to come to
them.) Funniest climax, of naming of a child according
to the parent's high hopes .for the child's future,
reaches when the child comes out to be quite contrary
to the hopes embodied in the name. Imagine the plight
of blind man bearing the name 'Nainsukh' or 'Lakhnaina'.
A tall, thin and fragile man named 'Pahalwan Singh'
was a source of amusement and frolic for anybody to
whom he got introduced. Similarly a very timid and a
coward man had been christened as 'Sher Singh' and
even a cat's mew would make him to shiver terribly. A
boy was called 'Rogadhaman Lal' but hardly a day
passed when the unfortunate boy was not under the
attack of one or the other disease. 'Appearances are
deceptive' hold its good in the world of names also. A
'muscleman' with long moustaches was employed by a
money lender to safeguard him against miscreants at
the time of need. He was very well fed on meat, milk,
curd and butter. But when the time of action reached
the man was found hiding under a 'Charpoye'. He was
asked as to why he hid himself and of what use his
long moustaches were. i Prompt came the reply;
"Sir, don't blame my moustaches, even cats
possess long moustaches, are they to be called lions?
"
9.1 Importance
Names have, however, not always been drawn out of
unusual sources or the whims and fancies. of parents
only. Christening has received the greatest attention
of ancient 'Law givers'. It has been discussed in full
and all proper guidelines have been framed by 'Sutras'
and 'Smrities'. Brahaspati, the famous Indian sage,
says that names are the primary means of social
intercourse, they bring about merits and are the route
of fortune. From name man attains fame.Therefore
naming ceremony is praiseworthy:
9.2 Samaskaras
Ancient Indians evolved a number of 'Samaskaras to be
performed during the full life cycle of an individual.
A Samaskara-less person was not deemed fit to live a
civilized life. These sacraments are not unique to the
Hindu society only. Almost all the civilized social
groups framed their own sacraments. But Hindi
Samaskaras are very wholesome and comprehensive All
the finer details of life have been discussed thread
and bare. They are considered as instruments of
purification of body and soul. Different meaning have
been given by different people to the word 'Samaskara'.
Its common meaning is connected with a religious rite
performed for improvement of mental and physical
well-being of a man who strives for a suitable place
in the society. But, Hindu Samaskaras combine in
themselves many social and religious performances
which do not aim at formal worldly well-being only,
but are necessary for the alround development of
personality and unification of the 'self'. A man of 'Samaskaras'
is considered a mine of good qualities and manners.
9.2.1 Vedic age
'Samaskaras' had evolved in or before the vedicage, as
is evident from the 'Ved Mantaras'. But use of the
word 'Samaskar' itself is very rare in vedic
literature. 'Brahman' literature also does not make
any mention of this word, although 'Upanayana',
Antishti' etc.,, prevalent samaskaras do find place in
them.
Commentators have used this word not
only for the religious rites performed for personal
purification but for the purification of 'Samagri'
used for 'Yajna' also.
9.2.2 Number
There is no unanimity amon . 'Smriti', 'Sutra' and
other 'Dharma Shastara' writers regarding the; number
of 'Samaskaras'. But modern scholars are agreed on
their number being sixteen. However, 'Namakarna' has
been included by all in their list of 'Samaskaras.
Vedvyasa enumerates sixteen Samaskaras from 'Garbadhana'
to 'Anteysthi'.
(Vedvyasa 1, 14-15)
Swami Dayananda Saraswati and Pandit Bhimasena Sharma
have also fixed the number of Samaskaras at Sixteen 'Samaskaras',
particularly the 'Namakarna' ceremony was performed by
all castes and 'Varanas' of ancient Hindu society. But
certain law .givers prohibited Shudras from having any
Samaskaras.
Sudras have been connected with the
other three castes through matrimonial aliances from
the very beginning. 'Anuloma' marriage i.e., of males
of higher castes with female of lower castes were not
uncommon in society down to the 8th century. Even
orthodox 'Smriti' writers regard them as legal. But 'Pratiloma'
in which the female of a higher caste is married to
the male of a lower caste was vehemently opposed by
all. Even this stiff opposition did not stop
such intermarriages completely. According to 'Dharma
Shastara' and 'Smriti' writers 'Chandala' was the
outcome of 'Pratiloma' form. of marriage i.e.,
marriage between a Shudra male and a Brahmina girl.
9.3 Namakarna
Benjamin Walker has described in detail the procedures
followed in the actual ceremony of 'Namakarna'. A
sacrificial fire is lighted and darbha grass is laid
to the west of it in a north-south direction, but with
the blades of grass pointing north. The father of the
child sits on the grass facing southwards, and. mother
holding the child sits facing him. Both parents dress
in new unwashed clothes and the child is covered with
a clean piece of cloth. Prayers are said, and at the
given time the mother hands the child to father, head
first so that it is passed over from south to north. A
gold object, usually, a ring, is placed in a brass
vessel containing ghee, oblations of ghee are poured
into the fire and then the golden object is taken out,
washed and tied around the child's neck by the father.
The father then anoints his hand with ghee, warms it
over the fire, touches the child's forehead, smells
the child's hand as a cow would smell its calf and
pronounces a benediction. He then gives the child's
name previously selected by the priest or astrologer.
9.3.1 Time
There is, however, no agreement among the 'Smriti' and
'Dharmashastara' writers as to how many days after the
birth of the child name giving ceremony is to be
performed. 'Grahsutras' prescribe that 'Namakarna'
should be performed after ten days of the birth of the
child. Brahaspati is of the view that Kshatriya could
perform 'Namakarna' after 16 or 19 days of the birth.
He laid down that 'Namakarna' of the child maybe
performed on tenth, twelfth, thirteenth, sixteenth,
nineteenth or thirty-second day after birth.
According to other Dharma Sastra
writers it should be held after 10,100 days or one
full year
Yajnavalakya and Laghu Aswatayana
prescribe 11 days after the birth. Vedvyasa,also
supports the period of eleven days as interval between
'Jatakarma' and 'Namakarma.
Kashmiri Pandits used to perform the
christening ceremony of the new born chid after sixth
day of its birth. 'Shran-Sundar' and 'Namakarma' were
performed on the same day. However, Lawrence states
that "on the ninth day after the birth (Sundar)
the mother and the child are bathed in some auspicious
hour and the child receives its name". Whatever
might have been the day for performing the 'Namakarma',
it has now become an anachronism. No longer is seen
such a ceremony being performed in any Pandit family.
Children are given names without any inhibitions and
often likes and fancies of parents determine it.
The Sikhs observe :this ceremony in a
different way. The parents take the baby to the
nearest Gurdwara where the priest, after regular
prayers, recites at randon a hymn from the Holy Book.
The first letter of that hymn has to be the first
initial of the baby's name, and name is coined which,
if approved, is announced. To a boy's name the word
'Singh' and to a girls 'Kaur' is added.
The Sikh idea of religion consists of
'Nam' and 'Seva'. To practise 'Nam' means to practise
the presence of God. . .worship of the name is made
more impressive by being organised in the form of
congregational recitations or singing. ' Guru Nanak
preaches 'Nam' (the name of God) as a potent means of
religious realization.
9.4 Vedas and Sutras
There are specific directions available in the 'Vedas'
and other ancient Hindu texts for giving names to
newly born. Patronymics were commonly used, generally
by a modification of the father's name e.g., Upagu's
son was called Aupaguva. Metronymics were current in
matriarchal systems, but in other areas, according to
Panini, one's designation by one's mother's Gotra or
clan implied that the father's name was unknown.
Graha Sutras have discussed the composition of the
name in full. Parashara prescribes that the name
should be of two or four syllables, beginning with a
consonant, with a semi vowel in it, with a long vowel
or with ' Visarga' at the end -a name formed from a
root with Krt affix and not a nominal derivative
formed with a 'taddhita' affix. Baj-vappa lays down no
restriction on number of syllables. "The father
should give a name to the child containing one
syllable, two syllables, three syllables or an
indefinite number of syllables"."
But Vasistha restricts the number to
two or four syllables and asks to avoid names ending
in i and r.
Amaloyana Grahy Sutra says that
"one who is desirous of fame, his name should
consist of two syllables, one who desires worldly
lustre his name should contain four syllables.
9.4.1 Female Names
The rules laid down for naming girls were different.
The name of a girl should contain uneven number of
syllables. It should end in 'a' and should have a 'Taddita'.
Bajv-appa laid down that the name of girl should
contain three syllables and end 'i'.
Manu is of the view that "it
should be easy to pronounce, not hard to hear, of
clear meaning, charming, auspicious, ending in a long
vowel and containing some blessing."
Manu, further, laid down that a
Brahman should be named by a benedictory word, a
Kshatria by a might depicting word, a Vaisha by a
wealth and prosperity depicting word.
9.4.2 Four-fold Names
Four-fold naming was also current among the ancient
Indians. This type of naming was done according to
asterism under which the child was born, the deity of
the month, the family deity and the popular calling.
This development was due to rise of religious sects
and astrology. 'Nakshatra name', very well-known to
the Grahy Sutras, was derived from the lunar asterism
under which the child was born.
9.4.3 Nakshatra Name
There is a written directive that the father or the
eldest member of the family should name the baby after
a 'Nakshatra' Names
of 'Nakshatras' and their corresponding 'Gods' is as
follows: 'Asvini'--'Asvin'; 'Bharni --' Yama'; 'Kritika'--'Agni';'Rohini'--'Prajapati';'Mrigshira'--'Soma';
'Ardra'--'Rudra'; Punarvasa'--'Aditi'; 'Pushya' --'Brahaspati';
'Ashlesha--'Sarap '; ' Magha '--'Pitra'; 'Purvaphalguni'--'Bhagha';'Utraphalguni'--'Aryamana';
'Hasta'--'Savitra'; 'Chitra--Tvashtra'; ' Svati'--'
Vayu' ' Vishakha'--Indragani'; ' Anuradh '--'Mitra'; 'jeyshtha'
--' Indra ';' Moola'--'Niriti';'Purvashada '--'Aap';'
Uttrashada'-' Vishvadeva ' ;' Shravana '--'Vishnu' '
Dhanishtha '--' Vasu '; ' Shatbhiha '-'Varun'; ' Purva
badarpad'-- Ajaikpad'; Utrabadarpad'--'Ahiburdhanya';
and Revati'-'Pushan'. If the child was born under the
constellation 'Asvini ., he was named 'Asvini Kumar',
if under 'Rohini', 'Rohini Kumar' etc. Another
procedure of christening on the basis of 'Nakshatra'
was also prevalent. It was believed that every 'Nakshatra'
was the deity of one or more alphabets of Sanskrit.
Accordingly a child born under 'Asvini' nakshatra had.
to be given a name to start with its subordinate
alphabet (i.e., ).
9.4.5 Deity's name
The second practice of naming was based on the deity
of the month in which the child was born. According to
'Bhargay' the name beginning from 'Marghashersha'
were, 'Krishna', 'Ananta', 'Achyuta', 'Chakri', '
Vaikhuntha', 'Janardana', ' Upendra', ' Yajapursha', '
Vasudeva', 'Hari', ' Yogesh' and 'Pundrikasha'.
The name based on month deity used to
be the second name of the child.
'Kuladeva' or the family deity was
also a source of name for: A child.' Every family used
to worship one. or the other deity and naming a child
after him would mean extension of protection of the
deity to the child. These deities could be vedic gods
'Indra', 'Soma', 'Varuna', 'Mitra', 'Prajapati' etc.,
or the Puranic Gods. like 'Krishna', 'Rama', 'Ganesha'
and 'Shankara' while. naming the child the word 'Dana'
or 'Bakta' was added to the name of the deity.
e.g., (i) Ganesha Dass (ii) Rama Bakta.
9.4.6 Popular Name
The popular name was meant for general use in, the
society. The rules.given above governed the
composition of such a name. The cultural and the
educational background of the family would play a
dominant role for framing, of such a name. But as a
general rule such names should necessarily be
benedictory and full of meaning.
9.4.7 Guiding Principles
The guiding principles of 'Namakarna' were thus
-
Name should, be easy to
pronounce and pleasing to auditory system;
-
Name should be indicative of the
sex of its owner;
-
Name should be representative of
fame, luxury and power and in the last
-
Name should indicate the caste
of the owner.
9.4.8 Paninien Rule
The Paninien convention for the formation of names
went as 'follows: If Ganga was the father, then Gargi
was the son, Gargya the grand-son (also called Vriddha
'Senior') and Gargyayana the great grand-son ,(also
called Yuvan 'Younger'). This is a common practice in
English speaking countries still. They name a child
after the name of its father or grand father with an
epithet 'senior', 'junior', 'primus' or 'secondus'.
9.5 Divine Names
The Vedic Aryans avoided personal names drawn from the
vocabulary of divine or religious nomenlclature. But a
study of Kashmiri names of past reveals the gross
violation of this rule. Almost all the Pandit names of
Kashmir are a true copy of the names of gods and
goddesses. Custom of giving names of deities seems to
have been prevalent among non-Aryans. It is clear from
Kashmiri as well as South-Indian names. This practice
was later on adopted by Buddhists and most probably
Kashmiri Pandits have adopted it from them. The names
of stars, constellations, planets, sun, moon, asterism
were also avoided in vedic times by the Aryans as well
as the use of names taken from nature e.g., of
mountains, hills, rivers, forests.
Manu has laid down a clear directive that a girl
should not be given an awkward name indicating "a
constellation, a tree, a river, a mountain, a bird, a
servant and a terror." Nature names being very
commonly adopted by aborigines, many law givers,
including Manu, forbade the marriage of a girl, named
after any of above things, with a man of higher
-castes'. These rules were, however, seldom observed
by succeeding generations. We find many women bearing
names, in contrast with the above rule in our ancient
texts. Women with names of rivers include 'Narmada',
wife of the Paurava king Puruktsa; 'Kaveri', wife of
Jahnu etc.
9.5.1 Sameness of Names
Pargiter has discussed at length the 'sameness of
names' of ancient Hindus. He has sorted out a large
number of names having been given after gods, places,.
animals, stars, plants, rivers and also names of
countries given after the names of kings.
9.5.2 Names of Gods
"Kings, Princes and Brahmanas had the same name
as gods and the mythological beings and heavenly
bodies". There was Varuna among the Vasisthas and
among the Bhargavas. Agni was the name of an Aurva
rishi and of a Maharishi called Bharatas. Aruna was
the dawn, and two Brahmanas were so named. Rishis and
others were named after their deities, and heavenly
bodies were called after rishis such as the seven
stars of the Great Bear and the Star Canopus.
9.5.3 Names of Places
Further kings and brahmanas sometimes had the same
name as places and peoples. Thus there were a people
called Asmka, yet it was the name of a king of Ayodhya
and of a Brahman". Anga was the name of a country
and people (East Bihar) and its king, and also of the
reputed author (Aurava) of Rigveda " Aja, king of
Ayodhya had the same name as a people. 'Pukkara' was
the name of a son of Rama's brother Bharata, Nala's
brother, a town, the moder Pokhar. Kuru, the Paurava
King, had the same name as the people
.
9.5.4 Names of Animals
Kings and Brahmanas also bore the names of animals, as
Rksa, Rsaba, Kurunga, and Vatra, of birds, Sakuni,
Hamsa, Suka and Uluka; of trees and plants, as Asvatha,
Plaksa, Nala and Munja; of inanimate objects, as
Sankha, Drti, Asman and Drona; and even of ceremonies,
Asvamedha, also of parts of body, as Bahu, Karna,
Caksu, and of abstract ideas, as Sakti and Manyu.
Women had the names of animals and
birds as two God (Sukra's wife and Yati's wife) and
also Brahmadatta's queen and Hamsi, of plants of
flowers, as Malt, Padmini and Kamala; of inanimate
objects, as Aksamala, Arani and Sita; and also of
abstract ideas as, Maryada and Samati".
9.5.4 Names of Rivers
Women had the similar names as rivers, and this fact
is in violation of the injunction that a Brahman
should not marry a maiden having such a name. Thus the
queen of king Purukutsa, of Ayodhya was named Narmada;
Yauvanasvas grand-daughter Kaveri was wife of Jahnu,
king of Kanyakubja, Sarasvati was queen of the Paurava
king Matinara and Kalindi (Yamuna) was the name of the
wife of Asita (Bahu) king of Ayodhya. There were three
queens named Drsadvati, (i) wife of a King of Ayodhya
Visvamitra's queen, wife of Divodasa king of Kasi .
Urvasi was the wife of Pururavas and
Urvasi was also the original name of the Ganges.
9.5.5 Names of Constellations
Again, women had the same names as stars or
constellations; thus there were two Rohinis (one wife
of Vasudeva) and the other wife of Krisna. Several
Revatis (Balrams wife and others), a Citra Name of
Subadra), and Radha; hence Arundhati (the star Alcov
in the Great Bear) wife of Vasistha, may not perhaps
be mythical.
9.5.6 Names of Survile Status
The use of a name indicative of any subordination or
survile status was not allowed by Vedic Aryans. But
this rule was later on very often violated by adding
the word 'dasa' to the name of family deity or any
other god e.g. 'Durga Das', 'Ganesh Das', 'Bhagvan
Das' etc. No Rigvedic Aryan would think of calling
himself a 'dasa' even of a deity because of the
contempt in which the ,term was held. Hence it is
believed that the sage 'Mahidasa' and the king 'Divodasa'
were non-Aryans since these names occur so early in
the vedic period. In course of time, however, the
Aryans adopted the native names and "the early
Hindu philosophy, particularly that of Upanishadas,
the rishi families, and the renowned Indian clans of
yore, were all intimately connected with indigeneous
people.
9.5.7 Secret Names
Besides a popular or an official name, every child in
a Hindu household received a secret name. This
practice is still in vogue in India. But such a
practice was never prevalent among Kashmiri Pandits.
They, of course, gave a name of affection to every
child, besides his official name. But such a name was
never kept as a guarded secret. Everybody in the
household would call the child by his 'affectionate
name'. Many taboos were connected with giving of a
secret name. Ancient Aryans believed that a name is
one's personal possession. It was to be guarded
against any attack by magical means. Furthermore,
there was thought to be a limit in the 'personal
treasury' to the 'Units' of one's name, and constant
use of it depleted this stock and weakened the owner.
One's name is, therefore, not to be banded about, and
strict conventions governing modes of address are
almost universally observed in India. Visitors will
ask to see 'the master of the house'; a pupil will
refer to 'Swamiji' or 'Mahatmaji', or 'Guruji'. A
Hindu husband does not utter his wife's name, nor a
wife her husband's, but they will either just say what
they want without address, or will call out, 'O mother
of Krishna' or 'Hey Rama's father.' Formerly during
the baptismal rites a secret personal name used to be
whispered into the child's ear, which would be
conveyed only to father and grand-father of the child
by the officiating priest, and would thus never be
known to more than three or four persons. It was the
child's talismanic, and inviolable name. According to
Bodhayana 'Nakshatra' name should be kept secret and
should be known to the parents only till the 'Upanayana
Ceremony' of the child.
This name was thus closely connected
with the person of the child and was not made public
to keep away the evil eyes and harmful designs of
enemies.
"Among many primitives a child
was given a secret name in addition to the one he was
publicly known by, in order to foil evil spirits. In
some tribes it was forbidden to utter the king's name,
in others, even words that sounded like his name were
taboo. When former king Bossa Ahadi ascended the
throne of Dahomey, in French West Africa, he made sure
that no one pronounced his name by accident, even. He
had everyone killed who was named Bossa.
9.6 KASHMIRI NAMES
9.6.1 Male Names
Ancient Kashmiris had mainly one-worded names drawn
from sanskrit language and literature. Even aboriginal
names were preserved in a (See Sec. A 41) sanskritized
form. An epithet like Gupt was sometimes added to the
given name but it had in no case an independent
existence. It was yoked with the given name in such a
way that the two combined words would appear as one,
e.g., 'Abhinavagupta.' One-worded personal names
continued to be in vogue during the mediaeval period
also. We have many famous names like, Kalhana, Bilhana,
Srivara etc., available for ready reference. But the
fashion of one-worded names seems to have lost its
value when we come to pre-Independence era. Very
rarely a single-worded given name is seen during this
period. Every individual possessed a name having two
parts. The first part being the name of a deity, God,
a Puranic figure or even a saint followed by the
second part which usually was represented by a word
like Ram, Kakh, Chand etc., e.g., 'Sona Ram', 'Lassa
Ram', 'Govind Ram', 'Nath Ram', ' Vassa Ram; 'Daya
Ram', 'Shiv Ram', Juvan Ram', 'Kantha Ram', 'Sirij
Ram', 'Soda Ram', 'Dasha Ram', 'Isha Ram', 'Kisha Ram'
etc. Except with one or two names the word 'dasa' was
added. It is quite contrary to the general practice,
of expressing humility and complete subjection to the
deity, followed in other parts of northern India. 'Kakh'
was also very commonly used as the second part of a
given name. It besides being the part of a given name
is a 'Kram name' and also a term of respect and
reverence Any elderly person was addressed as 'Kakh'
e.g., 'Goonda Kakh', 'Lassa Kakh' etc. 'Kakh' was also
used singally to address a dear and elderly member of
the family. An elderly female in the family was
called, similarly, as' Kakni.
During early forties till late fifties
the word 'Nath' had a complete sway over the Kashmiri
Pandit names. It was used as the second part of almost
every Hindu name of Kashmir during this period. 'Nath'
which means the master has been used very
indiscriminately with all names coming from the names
of gods, goddesses, Puranic figures, names of saints,
inanimate objects and even sacred places. Thus 'Durga
Nath', 'Master of the Goddess Durga'; 'Omkar Nath',
'Master of Om' (the mystic symbol of Hindus), 'Brij
Nath', 'Master of the Brij Land', 'Dwarka Nath'
'Master of Dwarka', 'Prem Nath', 'Master of the love',
'Janaki Nath', 'Master of Janaki (Sita)'; 'Kailash
Nath', 'Master of Kailash mountain (abode of Lord
Shiva)', 'Prakash Nath', 'Master of the light'; 'Gopi
Nath', 'Master of the Gopic (beloveds of Lord
Krishna)', 'Hrady Nath' 'Master of the heart'; 'Pushkar
Nath', 'Master of Pushka- (a sacred place of Brahma)',
'Maheshwar Nath"'Master of Lord Shiva', 'Triloki
Nath', 'Master of the threeworlds''Raghu Nath',
'Master of the Raghukul'. This practice of adding the
word 'Nath' is quite amazing and often amusing also.
Imagine a 'Durga Nath' worshipping and flowing tears
of devotion at the feet of goddess Durga with least
idea that his very name is insulting and unrespectful
for the goddess. 'Lal' was another important
appendage, followed by 'Krishan', giving thus birth to
names like Brij Lal, Girdhari Lal, Shyam Lal, Bansi
Lal, Makhan Lal, Ramkrishen, Dayakrishen, Roopkrishen,
Radhakrishen, etc.
During early sixtees, however, 'Nath',
'Lal' and 'Krishen' went to background and the word
'Kumar' got prominence as the second part of personal
name. Names during this period were slightly modified.
They were given a poetic touch and poetic words and
expressions were borrowed from Hindi and Sanskrit
literature to serve as the names of newly born babies.
Rarely a name without 'Kumar' as its second part would
fulfil the requirements of fashion of the day. Thus
the names like 'Ashok Kumar', 'Kiran Kumar', 'Pawan
Kumar', 'Raj Kumar', 'Anil Kumar', ' Vasant Kumar', 'Sharad
Kumar', 'Sunil Kumar', 'Ajay Kumar', ' Vinod Kumar', 'Narender
Kumar', 'Saneh Kumar' 'Sanjay Kumar' etc., became
current among Kashmiri Hindus. But cycle of the names
seems to have completed a full circle and again
one-worded personal names have gained the popularity.
Present Hindu names are derived mainly from ancient
texts and mythical figures, besides literary
expressions of the past. Accordingly Rahul, Siddartha,
Dushyant, Amit, Ashwani, Navin, Sanjay, Ashu, Sanjeev,
Pravin, Gaurav, Parikshit, Utpal, Kalhan and Bilhan
have gained the currency and are very much prevalent
these days.
9.6.2 Female Names
As regards the female names of Kashmir, they were
one-worded during the remote past. However, during
pre-Independence days 'Mal' (corrupt form of 'Mala')
was usually, added to the given names of women. The
first part of these names would generally be
corrupted. form of a benedictory and beautiful
Sanskrit word. Female names like 'Vyash Mal'-(Yasha
Mala), 'Zai-Mal' (Jai Mala) Yambar Mal (Flower
garland), Daya Mal, Zacha Mal (Shining garland), Ganga
Mal (Garland of the Ganges), Arni Mal (Flower
garland), Boni Mal (Chinar garland), Posh Mal (Pushpa
Mala), Konga Mal (Saffron garland), Himal (Flower
garland) were very common. Like Kakh (in male names)
the word 'Ded' was generally used as an expression of
reverence. Any elderly lady would be called as 'Ded'.
Therefore, the names like 'Rop Ded', 'Zoon Ded', '
Yambar Ded', and 'Ranim Ded' were popular during those
days. But with the coming of Independence and
popularisation of female education, the word 'Devi'
got appended with the female Hindu names of Kashmir.
The given names still continued to be drawn from the
names of deities, Puranic heroines and Sanskrit
literary characters. Thus the names like 'Tulsi Devi',
'Roopa Devi', 'Lakshmi Devi' etc., gained the
currency. The custom of changing the given name of a
girl after her marriage continued to prevail.
Therefore, the married women used to have slightly a
different name from the virgins. The word 'Vati' seems
to have been very popular as the second part of a
married woman. During this period we see a large
number of names like 'Somavati', 'Prabhavati', 'Padmavati',
'Durgavati', 'Dhanavati', 'Leelavati', 'Chandavati' 'Kamlavati'
etc., being consistently used for married women. By
and by the practice of using 'Devi' with a given name
lost its ground and the word 'Kumari' caught the
Pandit fancy. . Therefore, names like 'Nancy Kumari, 'Phoola
Kumari', 'Santhosh Kumari', 'Beta Kumari,"Krishna
Kumari' etc., became current. The given names 'Phoola'
and 'Tosha' were so common that often the problem of
homonyms would create difficulties. But the use of one
worded female names is gaining ground very fast, and
as in case of male names, benedictory and beautiful
expressions are used as given names. Names of the
heroines of yore, deities and classical characters are
used in abundance as sources of given names for girls.
We see names like ' Vasna', 'Priti',. 'Shakuntala', 'Geetika',
'Rekha', 'Anjali' etc., are most prevalent in present
day Pandit community. As a matter of fact such
bewildering names are now given to boys and girls
which are hardly indicative of the sex of their
owners. Names like 'Santosh' 'Preetu', 'Ashu' and many
others are given to children of all the sexes.
9.7 Pure Kashmiri Names
A Kashmiri Pandit lady, in a sentimental appeal has
called upon all Kashmiris to give pure Kashmiri names
to their children. She writes, "my name is
Poshkuj. It could be Pushpalata or even Kusam Lata,
but I am Poshkuj because Kashmiri names fascinate me
...Pure Kashmiri names possess a greater appeal. To
change Himal, Gonwati, Zoon, Sangarmal, Wanmal into
Gunwati, Vanmala, Chandarkala or Sumanlata,, seems to
me, ludicrous. A limitless treasure of names is hidden
in our history and literature. Why are not they owned?
However, I feel delighted to see many people having
christened their children and houses like Pamposh,
Abhinav and Shahzar, Zoondab, etc. Please continue
with this trend. . .and select an attractive,
beautiful and melodious Kashmiri name for your
child."
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